Blind date: ‘We talked so much our food went cold’ | Life and style


Carlos on Tom

What had been you hoping for?
Somebody enjoyable, bold and attention-grabbing.

First impressions?
Nicely dressed. Nice smile. Tall.


What did you discuss?
Careers. We talked about our journey tales – he’s very effectively travelled and talked about his time in South America. Homosexual pleasure.

Any awkward moments?
Our mutual lactose-intolerance standing. It made for a terrific subject of dialog once we had been shopping the dessert menu. I don’t assume the waiter totally understood when Tom mentioned he couldn’t have dairy – he was offered with scoops of ice-cream.

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Good desk manners?
He holds his wine glass by the stem and shared his food, so it’s a sure from me. I wouldn’t say the identical for myself – I dropped my steak knife in my lap after nearly stabbing myself with it.

Neatest thing about Tom?
He’s bold and is aware of what he desires out of life. And Tegwen, his canine.

Would you introduce him to your mates?
I’m not too positive they’d have much in frequent, however why not?

Describe Tom in three phrases?
Bold, chilled and a traveller.

What do you assume he fabricated from you?
I’d prefer to assume that I used to be humorous.

Did you go on someplace?
The restaurant requested if we needed to go to the sky bar, however it was already 11 – I used to be on name the following day and he had a PT session within the morning.


Need to be in Blind date?


Blind date is Saturday’s relationship column: each week, two
strangers are paired up for dinner and drinks, and then spill the beans
to us, answering a set of questions. This runs, with {a photograph} we
take of every dater earlier than the date, in Saturday journal (within the
UK) and on-line at each Saturday. It’s been working since 2009 – you possibly can learn all about how we put it collectively right here.


What questions will I be requested?
ask about age, location, occupation, hobbies, pursuits and the kind of
individual you wish to meet. If you don’t assume these questions
cowl the whole lot you want to know, inform us what’s in your thoughts.

Can I select who I match with?
it’s a blind date! However we do ask you a bit about your pursuits,
preferences, and many others – the extra you inform us, the higher the match is probably going
to be.

Can I decide the {photograph}?
No, however don’t be concerned: we’ll select the nicest ones.

What private particulars will seem?
Your first title, job and age.

How ought to I reply?
however respectfully. Be aware of the way it will learn to your date, and that
Blind date reaches a big viewers, in print and on-line.

Will I see the opposite individual’s solutions?
No. We could edit yours and theirs for a spread of causes, together with size, and we could ask you for extra particulars.

Will you discover me The One?
We’ll strive! Marriage! Infants!

Can I do it in my house city?
Provided that it’s within the UK. Lots of our candidates dwell in London, however we’d love to listen to from individuals dwelling elsewhere.

How you can apply
Electronic mail [email protected]

Thanks to your suggestions.

And … did you kiss?
The date wasn’t going that method.

When you may change one factor concerning the night what would it not be?
The dairy-based cheese menu.

Marks out of 10?
7/10. We’ve stuff in frequent however need various things out of life.

Would you meet once more?
Yeah, for positive, as buddies.


Tom on Carlos

What had been you hoping for?
Somebody form, open and passionate.

First impressions?
Tall, good-looking and a bit of nervous.

What did you discuss?
Studying languages, our travels, my canine, Tegwen, Carlos’s ardour for crops and the quirky gigs he goes to.

Any awkward moments?
The dessert menu was not very lactose-intolerant pleasant. My solely alternative was sorbet – and they nonetheless put in balls of ice-cream!

Good desk manners?
Impeccable. We talked loads, so our food went chilly, however it was price it.

Neatest thing about Carlos?
Very unassuming, however completed. His mum should be proud.

Would you introduce him to your mates?
Certain! However he’s the kind of individual I’d favor to spend time with in a extra chilled setting.

Describe Carlos in three phrases?
Variety, caring and modest.

What do you assume he fabricated from you?
That I didn’t shut up! This was my first evening out shortly resulting from sickness, and I used to be glad to have interaction with somebody new.

Did you go on someplace?
We spent three hours within the restaurant, so it was already fairly late, and he was working early the following day. So, no.

And … did you kiss?
Only a pleasant hug.

When you may change one factor concerning the night what would it not be?
Extra dessert choices for the lactose-intolerant neighborhood.

Marks out of 10?
10, an ideal gentleman.

Would you meet once more?
As buddies, sure. He’s already promised to take me to a gig someday.

Carlos and Tom ate at Gino D’Acampo’s My Restaurant, Liverpool. Fancy a blind date? Electronic mail [email protected]

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